BTW - I think kelaaron, was right on in the statements on your 1st page. I totally agree, very valid points. I always wondered if I had an affair as well, if it would be easier for my H to deal w/our sitch ..... then we would have both been bad.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)