Corey, I'm so sorry. I was hoping it wouldn't go that way. So did your H tell you and is he happy about that? My thoughts and prayers are with you (as always!) ((((Corey)))) Karen
I am very sorry too Corey. I know it is not what you wanted and maybe even not what H wanted since Troll obviously slept with someone else while they were "together". Yuck!!
Keep focusing on you, continue to not be available and you will find the path you need to take. hugs hon.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Corey, I am so very sorry! My head just dropped when I read this. I was SOOO hoping the results wouldn't come back with someone else! Please keep us posted on how you're doing.
So did your H tell you and is he happy about that?Karen
No, he actually said he feels bad for hoping that she wasn't his. I really don't know WHAT he is going to do. I don't expect him to deny his child, so what he does from here is on him.
I will just keep on, keepin' on. Now my DD has to be told....F*ck!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I'm going to fall back on some of my classic advice.
When you don't know what to do, don't do anything! There will be plenty of time for doing "something" later. For now, get yourself centered, and take care of yourself. As far as H goes, just let him live with his problems. Try not to make them yours.
Well its done. My DD has been told and it was as bad if not worse than I had expected. She is devastated and her Dad, coward that he is pretty much told her and then left. So I have had to deal with the aftermath and its enough to break your heart.
I will be calling her C tomorrow to get her in as soon as possible.
Thanks to all of you for your support and love, I couldn't have made it without all of you.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option