OK {{{Carpenter}}} What happened to being an amazing guy..amazing guys would not call any of us gals "nappy hos" LOL (tho I do call other woman that little chickie and I think, in my convo with hub tonight I actually used the term sloppy seconds..who IS this girl tonight sticking up for herself? LOL)
Tawnya
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
This damn trip - it is cancelled but travel arrangements not toasted - travel agent has them on hold. The christmas excursion.
The k's are still hoping I have a change of heart. W is pressuring me to reconsider to not break k's hearts. Don't really care what W thinks right now, but it would be good for k's. And if we did D, she gets 50% of debt.
Maybe it is a case of taking W up on her offer to take k's for 2 weeks w/o W. More time to show just me and k's.
Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
I think it depends if you can afford it, or if it's going to be adding debt to the family. Now is NOT a good time to be adding debt in this economy, needless to say.
If you can afford it, and you can take the kids without her, then I think you should go (although I would have preferred that you hadn't said "no" to begin with). If you CAN'T afford it, then you should cancel it and do something less expensive with the kids -- just you and them.
Guess in thinking about it, I did leave the door open with the k's - couched it with "likely not" going to happen. Financially, we can make it work if needed - and maybe at this time in everyone's life.
Can't believe W would give up christmas time with the k's.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
(tho I do call other woman that little chickie and I think, in my convo with hub tonight I actually used the term sloppy seconds..who IS this girl tonight sticking up for herself? LOL)