oh please. I actually went to lunch with OW2, hugged her and then went out on double date with her and her H and me and mine. Talk about glutton for punishment. Just forget about them. They really aren't worth the time and energy we put into thinking about them. MT, you are doing good. Yes get through the holidays and go from there. and don't get caught trying to see what he is doing again. I know it's hard to not wonder but in the end you are just hurting yourself more.


If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.