Thanks for stopping by over on my thread. You seem like a very fun lady!
I understand your feeling compelled to do the drive by of the OW's house. And I commend you on your creative thinking to get out of it....
I actually went up and knocked on the OW's door a couple days after I found out. Tried 3 times, in fact, but she was never home. I look at that now as the gods looking out for me. I had some crazy idea that I was going forgive her (i.e. show her that I was the better woman by rising above her). Crazy, huh!
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd