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I wish there were some magic words to take this all away.

I'm terribly sorry, Corey. Always knew it was possible, but now it's real. I'm sorry.

Feel the feelings. Work through them. Give yourself plenty of time.

(((((((Corey)))))))


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Corey, I'm so sorry. I was hoping it wouldn't go that way. So did your H tell you and is he happy about that? My thoughts and prayers are with you (as always!) ((((Corey)))) Karen


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I am very sorry too Corey. I know it is not what you wanted and maybe even not what H wanted since Troll obviously slept with someone else while they were "together". Yuck!!

Keep focusing on you, continue to not be available and you will find the path you need to take. hugs hon.

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Corey, I am so very sorry! My head just dropped when I read this. I was SOOO hoping the results wouldn't come back with someone else! Please keep us posted on how you're doing.

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Originally Posted By: karen43
So did your H tell you and is he happy about that?Karen


No, he actually said he feels bad for hoping that she wasn't his. I really don't know WHAT he is going to do. I don't expect him to deny his child, so what he does from here is on him.

I will just keep on, keepin' on. Now my DD has to be told....F*ck!


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Is that something you are going to do together? He needs to man up, it can't all be on your shoulders. You are going to get through this.

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Like everyone else, I was hoping it wasn't his.

But then again, I think deep down, you were pretty sure that the likelyhood of that was pretty small.

Thinking about ya'.


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(((S&S)))

Just stopping by to say I am so sorry for you. Now the truth can be dealt with however you need to for you.

Take care.


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((((((Corey))))))

I'm going to fall back on some of my classic advice.

When you don't know what to do, don't do anything! There will be plenty of time for doing "something" later. For now, get yourself centered, and take care of yourself. As far as H goes, just let him live with his problems. Try not to make them yours.

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Well its done. My DD has been told and it was as bad if not worse than I had expected. She is devastated and her Dad, coward that he is pretty much told her and then left. So I have had to deal with the aftermath and its enough to break your heart.

I will be calling her C tomorrow to get her in as soon as possible.

Thanks to all of you for your support and love, I couldn't have made it without all of you.


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