JWM, most M do have problems and yes it does not justify adultery. That is the rational view most of us on this board have. But when you have a WAS or MLC or looking for any excuse for committing adultery then you have a fog babble addicted spouse that uses a so-so M to justify their actions.
But, the ultimate question for all of us is whether or not that fog can lift and the "real" person we did love can re-emerge and, at that time, even if they were to love us, could we still love them? My W seems to have reinvented herself to be consistent with her actions rather than to do the introspection needed to understand what really drove her there (when the fog makes it ALL my fault)... It's the amnesia caused by the fog that's so devastating to us caught in their haze.
-AlexEN
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