"Hey. I'm heading over to meet some friends for some dinner and some drinks." "Okay. I just wanted to offer." "If you would have called a little earlier, I would have made plans." "At least I called." That was a little pissy. "I may not stay too long. Maybe after." "Well, we'll be home. Whatever you decide."
She sounds like she's DBing.
So is that a good thing or a bad thing?
Neither. Just an observation. Just make sure YOU are.