JWM, most M do have problems and yes it does not justify adultery. That is the rational view most of us on this board have. But when you have a WAS or MLC or looking for any excuse for committing adultery then you have a fog babble addicted spouse that uses a so-so M to justify their actions.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09