the rope is fraying now #10

[S.T. _I Made It!]

hey, IMHO, I don't think it really has to do with the house or where she lives. I think she's just trying to play that game so that it's a battle between son and wife. the more she keeps things separated, the harder it's going to be for both Baby AND her H.

the legal thing reallly really needs to get started. B, try to think of something creative that will get H to start that process. ??

and, I would continue to be compassionate towards him so that he has no reason to resent you and it will put more of the focus on her as the problem. Try not to be the one that focuses on how aweful she is being, try to let him lead that and try not to say to much, but just validate him. Otherwise, you can find him defending her if you are badmouthing her. He may even feel the same way, but he did make a choice to be with her in the past, so he can take offense to any comments you may make against her.

okay, not sure why I went on that tangent, but sometimes my mind wonders.

anyways, your doing awesome baby, and believe that you are...you have so much going on, so much tribulation that you'd think it was the end times if we just based it on your life!!! But believe that it can only get better...start talking positives into your life. Tell yourself everyday how beautiful you are and how strong you are and how great your life is, and you will get there.

love you!