Lilies are my favorite flower. I'm really big into scents and I just love the smell of the lily. I don't understand why God made flowers like the fuschia that have no scent. What's the point?
And I'm glad you are spending time with other people that appreciate you. I think that is a very healthy, uplifting thing, especially if it's a member of the opposite sex. Great for self esteem. There is a guy at work that I alway "kibitz" with that owes be a couple of drinks and a lunch now (don't ask how). He is very ecclectic and liberal, which is very different from my H, who is pretty straight laced. It's fun to joke around with him. H has always been pretty serious minded and doesn't loosen up much unless he is drinking. My friend is a single dad and is very close with his D16, which I admire in him very much. It's nice to be around someone who genuinely seems to enjoy my company! And I told H about him too, so it's not like I'm hiding anything. H said he sounds like a fun guy and maybe I should go have that drink with him [the jerk! ] H has never had a jealous bone in his body! Because he knows I would never cross that line.....
TJ
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