in my opinion, any meaningful response at this point would be seen as pursuing. I'm basing this on my read that this is NOT a meaningful opening for you (I'd tell you if I thought it was), and rather just more deflection from her. She always seems to bring up the "communication" issue when she's pissed at you, and not as any sort of meaningful R/M talk.
Just my opinion, but I'm not getting the "trigger" from this latest from her that you are, obviously.
