Well our meeting was cancelled so I do not see H today unless I run into him at work.
D15 and I leave in 10 days to go see family and H will remain behind with OW. I am trying to handle it and not get emotional. I think if I make it to Christmas it will be easier for all of us emotionally. I do feel good that I decorated the whole house and it looks great. My D15 was happy to see it, but i know she is stressed because she has been getting migraines at least 2x a week and I know it is from stress. she used to get maybe 1 a month. It kills me that my H's selfish actions have had such a negative impact on our family.
How is everyone else doing with the holiday? any thoughts.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09