T2L, 2x4...for All but it is REALLY good advice. All I think when you start to be confident and strong, it is overwhelming for H and he needs to "Put you down" to build up his own insecure behavior. Stay strong, continue to work on yourself, GAL and H will have to start making changes within himself. When H mentioned about "working on the M" did that include "no dates, no contact" with OW? Do not let him call all of the shots.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
