Hope hun, we all do it. I still do it and then have to slap myself when I get upset cuz H does something I think he shouldn't. It isn't an easy road. But...
Just trying to get BG to see that the time comes when you have to stop worrying about what they are doing and know that no matter what, in the end, you will be ok. When you get there, that is when the peace starts to come. and change in whatever way it comes. No I'm not 100% at peace in my own sitch, but I'm getting there. A little more everyday and it doesn't lessen my love for H, but it does increase my love for self.
Do me favor--send BG some big big hugs cuz she needs them. Don't have any idea if she will post but I she may lurk and she is checking email.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
