Signs to say WAW woke up?

[dday101798]

Wow, another night of zero contact, especially after a friend (so happning to be female) stopped at the house to pick up a set of rare christmas light I rewired for her for a nativity set for her and she got there before I did and the kids were still there. Usually this would invoke a "is that your new girlfirend?" call.

Good night all around, watched the Bear's game with some friends, pizza and beer. S11 brought his grades home, made the honor roll again (even published in the local paper), so proud of him. A friend did notice my face just drop when I saw STBX's signature on the report. I signed it as well.

Had a ackward moment this morning when waking s11 up for school, he immediately jumped up and hugged me and said "I'm going to miss you daddy." Not sure if he had some type of dream or what.

S10 said the other night at dinner that he didn't know what was going on since I "won't let mom take them out of state".

Not sure if the two statements are related or what?

Going forth with plan, notarizing notice of vacating today, making sure my cousin is still good with the idea of me staying for a bit to get finances together to retain atty and new funiture and apt. If so, sending letter certified tomorrow.

S11's statement this morning has really kicked up my intensity level several notches. This is going to get ugly. I'm becoming mor driven everyday to fight this and a lot of people are takin gnotice.

When STBX and FIL get my letter, I am not answering my phone in hopes of them leaving a bitter VM as I already have a ton of as evidence of her conduct toward me.