I would get frustrated about many of the same things you are... but you need to recognize right now that OW is clouding his judgement. Don't believe anything he says and only half of what he does. Remember that when he says or does something completely out of character... it is not him!
Thank you, Tom. It really does help.
Can't help but get a little annoyed and prideful sometimes, when I think about that stupid OW - some 21 yr old waitress - blinding him to me. Not to be completely conceited, but I am a catch. That's what bothers me so much.
Why would you not want to be with a beautiful, successful, intelligent, spirited, kind, forgiving woman that loves you, would do anything for you, has a super-active libido, and has been your best friend and touchstone for 11 years? Makes me want to tell him he's stupid.
