Wow! A lot of good advice there. Yes, I feel she at least had an emotional affair, but she won't own up to that and call it what it is. She continues to insist it was an innocent friendship (even defends talking to him at 3 am while I sleep). Anyhow, those are all her problems. If things work out I will defend her to anyone, so long as she is repentant and stops this nonsense. What do you all think of a legal separation? Last night after work she said she'd rather do that than get a D, at least for now. She says that God might have a plan for us again, she doesn't see it or how it could even happen, but she at least wants to wait and see. Is that just a prelude to a D? Should I give it a shot? What does a legal sep entail? Anyone been down that road?
