Independence Day on the Lake Erie shore.....

[Neilh23]

Women who are hurting & desperate for a man's approval & acceptance, tend to respond to being ignored.

to go along with this thought.....which would be better.....to start to detach from my W and move forward....which, in turn would play on HER fears of abandonment, not mine.....OR..... would it be better to stand pat, keep doing what i've been doing....all the nice things for her...showing that i still do care in every sense of the word, which only allows her to continue unimpeded on this path.

so IDk........in order to heal myself...i need to detach and move away from her...but every time i do, she sucks me back in with these small signs that indicate we still have a chance. and that she still does indeed need me. Maybe i'm reading them wrong....woudln't be the first time...LOL...