I am thinking of not attending a surprise birthday dinner for her uncle that she invited me to, in keeping with the idea so often esposused here about not accepting all invitations. As she moves closer, I will move away, ever so slightly.
Be careful here. Sometimes we (you and me) may think we are not attending something or going someplace to "prove a point" or "show them". When in reality all we are doing is punishing ourselves. IF YOU want to attend DO IT. Once activities pass you can never get them back. I too had that thought this week. My son won a basket ball Free throw competition. I was thinking about not attending it to "let her miss me" But then I thought. What will I be missing? Not what I might gain with Wife but what I will lose with my son... So if it really does not mean much to you then go ahead and miss the invitation. But do it because it will be YOUR gain and not HER loss.. Understand? I am getting to a breaking point in my sitch. I will not go into it here on your sitch.
Later Doc
(Why when I read what I wrote in response to someone else it seems like good advice but in my own sitch I am soooo confused?)
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
