XOM was 20 years older than W, couldn't hold down a full time job, high school education (from which he didn't seem to retain much), had a reputation for being a "player", and was definitely NOT easy on the eyes (unbiased opinion).
OM/OW in many cases has NOTHING to do with attractiveness, desire, or merit. They are a manifestation of the warped mind of the WAS. Kat, you deserve much better than XH. They deserve each other.
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