Same here Kalni..! and thanks. We DESERVE a happy ending hey?
Its so wierd.. theres a lot of pisceans going through it... Its wierd that a piscean fell for me, but I dont want him! He's M. So HE is not going to get a fairy tale ending (IF he was hoping to be with me). This sounds extreme.. but from comments he made to me and about an ex (his true love, before his W).. I can tell he fell for me big time, it just took me ages to realise. I dont think he is in love with his W, not right now anyway. I think he is doing that 2 fishes in opposite directions thing (me and her).
Anyway.. I dont want him, I want my ex to love me, and he doesnt! I dont thikn he loves Helen either. When we were together, we couldnt bear to be apart...not for years. I would cry if I didnt get to spend the night with him. I dont thikn it is true love with her. He's not happy, but, maybe, happy WITH her.
I dont know how your H can stay away, night after night. Thats not my experience of true love!!
I'm a hopeless romantic. If I end up with a nice man, I am going to love him like I've never loved before.. and yes with the benefit of all of the good things I have learnt this year about how NOT to do things. Like my BFF said.. you have to take the UPMOST care in relationships right from the outset.. sometimes too much damage can be done to turn back.