Here's the question. Only you and a couple of my other friends know about my dark period when I tried to check out. I am not bringing this up, ever, if I can help it. How the fu** should I handle this?
You don't have to do anything. If you're never going to bring it up, what's the problem?
For me it comes down to secrets and trust. If it's going to eat away at you, then consider what you need.
BUT.. this is the fun time, enjoy the moment. Just remember what your priorities are.