Not really. He did in the beginning, but now will reciprocate a hug, and even initiate it. One time a few months ago, I was in my car in the parking lot at my office, and he was going to pick something up. His arms were out to hug me even before I got out of the car! I talked to him again tonight, and it was a really good conversation. He is going to go for his citizenship (he is from Germany) and wanted to know if I knew of a paralegal who could look over his submission paperwork. I told him I was sure I could find someone, and I do know a few who specialize in immigration. We laughed and joked a little, and it makes me wonder what the heck he is thinking when we have this great interaction. All I know is it makes me feel good when he and I talk and have great conversations. We are both still willing to share what is going on in our lives, and that gives me hope.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..