Scarred,

I see by your number of posts, that you are new here. Please take this as a word to the wise, and meant in the most helpful way possible.

People post on this board because they are in pain. They are looking for a sympathetic ear. Someone to listen to them, and perhaps some insight that distance may give an outside observer.
What they are not looking for is someone to argue with them about their lives. Ladybug has a husband. He is well capable of making his viewpoint known. She doesn't need anyone here to argue with her about him. When she explains to you how her husband treats her, it is better to say, "I see", than to argue that she is not showing him love.