I read here somewhere....and it is becoming my 'mantra' that..
God has Perfect Timing.
I got upset yesterday that my L, and MIL, did things, made plans beyond my control.
I am afraid of my H's anger; I do not want my L, or his parents, pushing for anything.
My H makes horrible decisions when he is angry!!!
And right now...I hope his parents KEEP their heads in the sand and their mouths shut...as usual. I mean, I hope they don't change now!! HA! They haven't tried to 'fix' anything yet...and there is NO WAY they can fix this situation.
I like that FIL told H 'It's YOUR decision'....
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home
