thanks for the input... I agree and I really feel I'm going to do this.. can't say whether it will help my marriage BUT I'm in such a good place this week... I'm on 5 days of peace and happiness, considering it all. Better than I have been the whole time this started. I was little sad yesterday b/c I had 3 hour drive and time to "think" and I'll have that same drive back to Dallas tomorrow from Tulsa so too much time to "think" but it will ok.
H doesn't want to watch the kids both nights because he wants to go to a grand opening resturant one of the nights.. I hate to force it b/c I'll look controling and H started complaining that he feels like the babysitter... isn't that funny!!! But forgets that last two weekends he was out of town with OW... I need to figure out if standing strong on this is worth it... a 180 would be to let it go and just not bring it up ...I have plans Saturday night not Friday night so not that big of deal. He won't notice and hasn't noticed anything I'm doing to accomodate him ... Oh well... I can't wait till New Years Eve comes up ...
I'm just friendly and detached... this week... I'm going to stay strong and keep it up for me.
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
