Well I have just had a phone consultation this morning with another atty and based on length of marriage and assets if H wants to serve me I should go with fault D - adultery. I told both Attys that D is not what I want and hope that H does not follow through after the new year asking for this. I am hoping that the longer he goes with OW the worse it will be and some of the excitement will be gone. Both attys recommended PI. I had a name of one which I called this morning, These guys work quick and as of this afternoon -- has the WHOLE background of OW and will be working on getting pictures. OW was M 2x - both bad D and both times she racked her husband over the coals for money. I kept wondering how she was able to afford her nice beautiful house on her salary -- It was part of her D settlement. Maybe I can find who her atty was??? Then I can go to a consultation with them so if she recommends that atty to my H he will be unable to use him since it will be a conflict of interest. Always thinking.
I am totally committed to saving my M, but I do think that we need to keep our eyes open and protect ourselves and not be at the mercy of a fogged out H and their gold-digging OWs. My H is a catch for OW since she figures he makes good money.
More to follow.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
