I'm going to hold you to that, sweetie pie! I know you are going to be fine. It is so hard to see him in the light that you have, but it has certainly helped you to drop what was left of any of that "rope" you may have been holding on to. Maybe, in some way it will even help to get over him a little faster. I just don't want the anger to turn my sweetie Amy into a bitter woman. The "anger" can help us at times get through what would otherwise be very painful and heartbreaking b/c of the loss of the love you would feel. When you are good and mad......it helps a bit... Just don't remain in that state of anger too long b/c you are too special to allow what he has done to ruin the special mother these two little boys have.
I think that he has just sank into that fogged up state of MLC that he didn't actually think about the "deal" b/c I believe it surpirsed him when you reminded him of what he had requested of you. What is good for the goose is good for the gander, as folks use to say. Might serve him well to remember that!
I want to talk more, but have to go for a while. However, I will be checking back.
Love, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Just don't remain in that state of anger too long b/c you are too special to allow what he has done to ruin the special mother these two little boys have. 