Life in the Rough - A Liar's Game?

[Babygirl]

omg i know!!! he can whisper or talk to me ANYDAY! it grosses my d's out as I so want him lol!!!!

[MT35]

I am going to go a bit back now but how about Rickey Nelson and Dean Martin in Rio Bravo, when they sing "My Rifle My Pony and Me". They can both handle a gun quite nicely!

[1hope]

Ohhh I agree! You can tell a lot about a man by how he handles his gun!

While you're at it let's include the young Clint Eastwood and also Tom Selleck. I always loved Magnum PI.

[MT35]

Magnum drove a nice car too!!! I am a fan of Clint in Heartbreak Ridge...one of H and I's favorites, but so was Rio Bravo, which then John Wayne too, I love McClintock, but that was because he reminded me of Grandpa, so I guess that would be a different thing wouldn't it! Sorry a bit off track now! Having a fun afternoon at work! I needed it!

[MT35]

Morning Hope, How was your evening?

[kelaaron]

Ok BG I wanted Sam Elliott. I'm gonna bring Leonardo DiCaprio and Carl Edwards. Got he has great arms. I know not an actor unless you count the cameo on Guiding Light but who cares, under that racing gear, wow. LOL

Morning Girls

[1hope]

Evening was very quiet. H was hunting and when he got home we had a light supper and within no time he was snoring on the couch. I went to bed and read for a while. He came up at some point and layed down, but I don't think either one of us slept very well.

He was pouty this morning, just sat in his lazy boy, did not start my blazer, or even make like he was going to get up to see me out the door. That pissed me off and I let him know it. He got up and complained that his back was hurting him....boo hoo. I told him that I'm sure his back wasn't a problem when he was with the OW and I'm sure he never complained about that to her! I know. I know. I couldn't stop myself. It hurts. I don't understandwhy after a week he thinks this will just be better and easy for me. When he makes an effort it IS easy for me. When he pulls in and pouts, I hurt.

Oh well. I'll give him his space and keep busy with my stuff. When he feels like being there again I'm sure that he will be.

[kelaaron]

Woo hoo Hope now you sound like me with a very sincere lack of pity. I will say your comment was a little rough, but we are always so good that to be bad once in a while. He wants it to be better for you quickly because then he can stop feeling badly about it. Are you kidding, what I did to H was horrible, but God forbid I ever bring up what he did do me. That is just a no no. So I don't but see I have finally FINALLY gotten to where it doesn't bother me.

Yes give space, you need it to even if you don't want to believe it. But now you have got to stop measuring his behavior because it will never be enough or you will actually miss the efforts that do occur.

[1hope]

But now you have got to stop measuring his behavior because it will never be enough or you will actually miss the efforts that do occur.

Thanks Kel, you are so right. I tend to judge things that he does against what I would do. I know I have to quit that. It's kind of like having expectations. I mean, I think he would be kissing some serious A$$ here..... but he just wants us to forget it happened.

Guess I've read too many romantic novels.

[kelaaron]

Hope hun, we all do it. I still do it and then have to slap myself when I get upset cuz H does something I think he shouldn't. It isn't an easy road. But...

Just trying to get BG to see that the time comes when you have to stop worrying about what they are doing and know that no matter what, in the end, you will be ok. When you get there, that is when the peace starts to come. and change in whatever way it comes. No I'm not 100% at peace in my own sitch, but I'm getting there. A little more everyday and it doesn't lessen my love for H, but it does increase my love for self.

Do me favor--send BG some big big hugs cuz she needs them. Don't have any idea if she will post but I she may lurk and she is checking email.