Well, just spoke with my attorney's office...we have to go with the order we orginially had. After the 1st of the year, he can have them for overnites with GF. Sucks. Also, just received my final recommendation from the courts for child support. They messed up. It's about $400 less a month, even tho stbx makes the same amount of money and will be making more next month. They have his gross income as $20,000 less a year. They told us that day we were there that it wouldn't be that different than the previous recommendation from our last case. But $400, that's quite a bit different! I'm just a plethora of good tidings today. I'm having a difficult time. S3 is having a difficult time, being very clingy to me and making many comments about missing his dad. I'm trying to handle it, but it's hard. I have no money for presents for the kids this year, stbx made a point of asking me about opening presents before he picks them up Christmas Day. He asked me about him having an overnite with them at Christmas, even tho our court order explains the conditions to them, he wants to go against it. Blaming me for the D. Getting a bunch of 'no' emails for job applications I sent out. My checking account is overdrawn. And I can't find a divorce support group in my area that I don't have to pay for! I'm missing my family. It's just a very difficult time right now.
Me- 29 X - 30 M - 7.5 years Final April 2009 S - 2005 D - 2007
Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option.
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