My h does have good qualities. I can seem them, but I think he is a bit confused on what I would like for a h.

It seems he is rating laundry and cleaning as a top notch attracter, when they are really at the bottom of my list in qualities that I admire in a mate.

It goes back to him scratching his head awhile back about how he could be a good h. When once again he never bothered to ask what I would like for a good h.

The qualities I rate top notch, not so sure my h understands the importance of honesty, integity, charachter, morals, values in a R.

Make sense?

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"