i also would stop being in a position to have your buttons pushed. Let her get herself to the atation. she has the attitude problem.
I was exactly like your W when I was having an A. Wake up buddy and start protecting yourself. Get tough on her .Give her the wake up call. it was all i needed in the end. The possibility of loosing it all !!!!!!!!
It's so interesting to me that we read this (or some version of it) from FWAWs and AWAWs on here all the time, and yet somehow, it's sacrilege to recommend things like this to BSs.
The data is all right there, people -- IT WORKS (or, more accurately, it at least gives you the bestchance for it to work).
