he problem is she continues to deny having had an affair. The other day she said that this guy was a very close friend who became her "refuge" when she was down,
Doing that is stepping out of the boundries of Marriage. It may not be physical affair but definitely emotional. Exactly like mine. While she is talking to him she is not talking to you
i would not care about how many people you talked to. You needed advice. My H talked to no-one but constantly threatens to expose OM to his W ( she does not know ) so another family wrecked !!!!!! He listens now to only those who soothe his feathers and stroke his pain.
She is angry because she is deflecting some of her guilt. Play ground stuff. Do not buy into it. She is talking to another guy is an Affair. As a woman the sex part of it , is not what is big for her. It is having that person listen , care , not bother her with the day to day dredgery of home and kids. She is in lala land.
I lied to my H for 3 years before telling the truth. Dont let her do that, as it will wreck your M as it did mine. Go with your gut feeling. It most likely is not wrong.
