Phoenixdeux, so if a marriage goes through a downtime after 10, 20, 30 years...that justifies adultery? It is impossible for M to be perfect every day.
All of the experts agree that nothing justifies adultery except emotional or physical abuse. Even then the battered spouse should get out of the marriage first.
JW,
I'll let Phoenix answer for himself, but you've obviously never read the body of his work on these boards if that's what you think his position is. That's a HUGE stretch.