Hello DBer's

The date went SENSATIONALLY!

This thing is proceeding 1000 miles an hour, and I'm more than fine with it. She told me that she had a crush on me for about 10 years, even when she was married (before her husband cheated on her!). Just like I felt, she described the first time I saw her in the gym as a showstopper. She said as soon as she heard I was back from Iraq, she hoped our paths would cross, because she knew I was getting divorced from STBX (Who?). When her ex-husband told her 3 years ago that STBX and I were getting divorced, she said she internally shouted YESS! I have also had a thing for her for years. She is a home run, and it's almost like I caught "Lightning in a Bottle". She told me she has never felt so connected to anyone, and I feel the same. I thought a lot about her in Iraq, but thought our paths would never cross, but they did by a case of some weird JUJU, in the gym a month ago. it should never have happened in a million years. I hadn't seen her in 4 years, and she had moved to another town with her daughters.

This is going to move forward. No doubt about it. It is hugely mutual. Here's the question. Only you and a couple of my other friends know about my dark period when I tried to check out. I am not bringing this up, ever, if I can help it. How the fu** should I handle this?