I only ask because you mention that it feels more like her death than your divorce?
I'm doing OK.
What I meant was that between LRT and going "dark" it feels more like she died than a divorce. I don't see her, I don't talk to her, and I think about her less every day.
For me, for my sitch, it was really like that. Everything fine, then BAM...gone. She got hit by a bus (metaphorically).
She has not softened a bit in the months since, but with OM still in the picture, I guess no one really expects her to.
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation