Originally Posted By: marriedCrazy
SS, How are you?

I only ask because you mention that it feels more like her death than your divorce?


I'm doing OK.

What I meant was that between LRT and going "dark" it feels more like she died than a divorce. I don't see her, I don't talk to her, and I think about her less every day.

For me, for my sitch, it was really like that. Everything fine, then BAM...gone. She got hit by a bus (metaphorically).

She has not softened a bit in the months since, but with OM still in the picture, I guess no one really expects her to.


H: 38
W: 36
S: 8
S: 5
M: 16
Bomb: 8/25/08
OM: 9/21/08
EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...)
Sep: 9/21/08
D Filed 9/23/08
My Situation