No I meant, werent you seeing HG in the summer.. when your H then got in touch with his "sorry" email out the blue after loads of NC and told you he was in C? So I seem to vaguely remember that you didnt 'bite' for a while, as you were seeing HG.. or did I get that wrong?
I'm sorry he doesnt reply to your messages, but they sound kind of cool/succint when you post them here, sort of, not that warm? Maybe thats how you guys IM, or maybe you were DBing, or just being a little reserved to protect yourself? Or maybe you expect him to do the work, step toward you first, as he was the one that left, so makes sense! But could you try being more encouraging/warmer with him?
Its a pretty potent full moon tommorow (see Kalnis thread!) so I reckon you should call him up or something... do you know his number, or where he lives? Seems a shame to just let it drift off into the ether without actually tryig to meet up with him, as you have been doing.
He might be embarressed about the cheque/owed money, if he cant pay you back.. can you let him know its not important right now, but you'd still like to see him?
I dont know, I'm alwats too nice me and err on the side of being compassionate.. but perhaps I am a bit doormatty! I'd just say try and try again.. what have you got to lose? You may end up D anyway at this rate...Like Mish says..what can you do next?
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
