A "pre bomb" story
Our main bathroom toilet sprung a leak around Feb/March this year. W and I discuss all possible fixes...decide a total gut job is in order. My specialty is construction....hence the screenname...I gather all info, we make a couple trips to Menards and Home Depot to pick stuff out. I coordinate all contractor buddies..drywall taping and plumbing. It's a but of a clusterf*ck as you could imagine....W and I pull threw it well. W goes to Vegas in mid march with her GFs for a long weekend....me and the kids hold down the fort. I took the weekend off from painting and stuff...if she can get a break...so can I. She actually gave me chit for not working on the bathroom.....

My W works in accounting....OM is a CPA at her firm. Standard joke around our house is I am a "single parent" from Jan-April. I did homework...dinner...soccer coaching....all while W worked 60 hrs a week.....and have done it for the past couple years. This year has been different....I wonder why......

More stuff later...probably won't be in any real timeline though...as I think of stuff I will date it.


H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

8-17 home (just for kids until the end??)