I just don't get him. H just calls on break, and talks about the football game, said I didn't seem very excited about it, I said I didn't think you wanted to pay for tickets just wanted to see if you could get them from work. H said well yeah, but I want to go. I told him I sent his friend what I had found for seats. I told him a college kid had called me last night about wanting to hunt our place. I told the kid we didn't have much it was mostly my grandma's land and she won't let you hunt. Which my grandma owns the mile section other than one corner, and my mom and dad own behind us. I was very upbeat, it is hard for me to get off the phone first, when I do he acts like I don't want to talk to him. He was really quiet when he said talk to you later and bye.

He has said before he feels like he is an inconvience to me when he calls, this was last year when he was saying I was having the affair. So I don't want him to feel that way when he calls, but I don't know how to address him when he says, Do you not want to talk to me? What type of response do I say?

I would like to say, you have chosen not to live with me, so why do you still want to talk to me? But I know that wouldn't be a good answer. Any ideas?


Finding My Yellow Brick Road....