She then said that she was going to our MC for the last time, so I told her there was no point in her going if she was going to stop. I said this in a very level manner. She became very angry and started asking for her money back. I refused and said she needed to help with the mortgage;
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W: I don't want to go to marriage counseling anymore C: I'm sorry you feel that way
No more discussion. She's trying to get you to engage by pushing your buttons.
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Don't you feel guilty because of her BS rap to lay it on you. It's BS,she knows and you know it. Hell, she's violent. Grab your b*alls back and stuff them in your underwear where they belong.
Stop engaging with her. Be neighborly with her. When she goes down that path it's up to you to jump off.
You need to make it real clear to her that if she hits you again your going to call the police again.People treat you how you allow them to treat you. That is so disrespectful.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
