Hi TxMom and Pm, thanks for your support. TxMom I can't get into FB yet. My regular pc is down and I can't access through my work laptop. We will be having a new laptop for Xmas so then I will be able to have access. The atty I spoke to said pictures would help, since I have much to lose. My 401K is 5x more than H's and I am also co-owner of my Mom's house and I don't want to lose those based on Hs infidelity.
Postively Mommy (love your name), I am really coming around and making the hard changes. Is it easy -- absolutely not. Old habits die hard, but no matter what happens I need to keep moving forward and use every opportunity as a positive.
I figure from now till when I leave to see my family that I will see H about 4 or 5 more times. I need to not fall apart especially with the holiday coming. H is driving us to the airport on 12/23. That will be my biggest challenge -- us going and H staying with OW. I pray to God for strength. I need to show him that I moving on and hoping when he spends it with OW it will be depressing not spending it with his true family. OW is big party person and I can see my H drunk going through this holiday to get through it. Instead of it being exciting I pray he will just see it as it is -- sleazy. What is your H doing for Christmas? We will support each other.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
