Beth,

Thank you for your reminder! I guess that is project manager in me, trying to anticipate everything that could possibly happen and having a plan in place if it does happen. It sounds like that is a "cheeseless tunnel" as far as R are concerned.

In reality, it probably does not matter if or when she approaches me. The point is I will not approach her. She knows where I stand, so she can deal with it whenever she feels ready. And as I am getting better at DB, I do not really need to prepare or rehearse what I am going to say, right?

AN


M43 W45, M17
S9 D6
Bomb: 11/11/08
EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ?
Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09
Healed, but still heading for D
My situation