I Challenged Him to Decide...

[istherehope]

Hi Opt,

I'm so happy for you :). I had a feeling you weren't posting because of your time with your H...

I know what you mean about the hurt feelings. Maybe you'd want to consider posting on the piecing board soon? While it seems early, I think people there might be able to give you some perspective as to how they have managed to deal with those feelings after starting to get back together.

Like you I struggle with whether it's better to let sleeping dogs lie or to understand what kind of things happened and why. My gut instinct is that it's better to focus on the present moment, and maybe reserve those kinds of conversations for a time very far down the road, when you are sure that you both can handle it. I know some people need answers before being able to move forward though.

Anyway I know it's early days, but it sounds very positive, and those ILYs are really amazing.

Just curious, would you/will you/have you ever brought up MC with him? I realize this might not be the right time, but just wondering about your thoughts on that.
ITH