Wow Beth.. I followed your thread too and I wondered where you were at. I cant believe you both feel the same.. want to stay M, dont want a D, both dating.. so wierd!

Can you see him/you falling back in love again? Or with him dating, is he looking for the elusive 'other'? How do you cope with it! I am amazed at the fortitude of all the people here.

Sorry to hijack also Lisa, hope you are having an illuminating week.
Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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