Boy and I glad I stayed off this thread yesterday LOL.
Hope read this this morning and thought it was an appropriate reminder.
"Recognize that love itself needs nothing in return to grow; it is the ego that seeks validation. Love is not something one controls, but rather something that happens. Like a fragrance blowing through the breeze and we're smitten. Where things get ugly is when we try to hold on to the scent rather than just allowing it envelope us. "
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.