Wow, I think we are both at the same spot mentally. We have both changed ourselves a lot but our spouses are doing more of the same. So sad for them that they cannot see they are the cause of their problems. We, on the other hand, are improving, are happier and whatever comes along, whether it's a reconciliation or another special person in our life, we will begin that with a new confidence, self-awareness, firmer bods and brighter attitudes. How wonderful is that!! Good job, let's help each other along!
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09