You are a top man. Were you like this with STBX ? Were you for a while then got in the comfort zone and stopped all the romance ? or is this the learnings of a former DAM ?
yes..I did things like this for Kim. I never missed an anniversary or birthday or special event. When Caleigh came then we both got comfortable I think. There was still some romance but it did slow.. I wrote about what I did for Kim in the last few pages.
the deal is this..see I don't see the flowers as a big deal..I apprecaite all the things said here about me doing it but to me it's just being a gentleman, a nice guy and showing her some apprecaition for going.
I talked to MHS38 last night. I could tell she really liked the flowers. I ask her out again but have no permanent date yet. Things must be worked out and planned a bit due tot he kids being on opposite weekends..
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or is this the learnings of a former DAM ?
and this Arthur...one thing I learned through this last divorce..if you let things get comfortable..then you give the chance for another to enter the picture..you can't let things get stale..you can't let things get comfortable..you must make a woman feel wanted, cherished, adored..
