DQ - It has only been 12 hours since i read your 2x4 and I have had the best day in 6 weeks. It may not continue but thanks for is what I hope now a permanent wake up call.
about my A. Yes i did that but I spent the next 3 years fighting for my marriage , with a man who came and went, was emotionally abusive . Mind you having said that, I did lie until this year, so I suppose that was not fighting for my M.
Just from my feelings today towards everything, i can see how you would Db more effectively. Only 1 day I know but it was a taste.
To stop thoughts, i just thought better of myself. If he wants another woman and i am not good enough for him , then go enjoy. I know in reality I am worthy of better love.
My h was like a street angel and me a home devil. Neither bring out the best in each other.
