Stupid question but can they just FIRE him? That sounds crazy to me.
How did he sound when you talked with him?
Hon, could this end up being a good thing? It certainly added $ worries to our household when h quit his job but it also eventually got him feeling renewed (plus it reduced contact with ow).
I know getting fired is a whole different ball of wax, though....
Sending you both positive thoughts.
Let us know. Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
Well, wait until you hear the whole story. This is certainly going to add to H's depression. I wish I could tell you how to help deal with it. Just take it one small step at a time. Hang in there - we'll be thinking, praying, and sending positive thoughts.
If it's any consolation, CJ was basically "structured out" of his high level job this past year too. Tough, but as Sage said, a blessing really. CJ hated that job more than I knew and it was a big contributor to his overall unhappiness.
I may not be able to post to each of you as regularly as I'd like for a while, but I will be thinking of you often. It's going to be awkward for both my H and me with this disruption, I'm not sure how the days will play out.
I was surprised at my H's attitude when he arrived home. He said that he is going to try to see this as a positive, a new beginning and we agreed to focus on possible solutions rather than the problem.
I think he is still in a state of shock though. I noticed a bit of tension rising in him this morning as he worked through the filing process for unemployment. Not sure how long he'll hold up with the positive attitude but I am pleased to see him trying.
We live in Florida, a "right to screw your employees state".
This certainly is turning out to be an interesting year.
However, I can feel everybody's warmth and concern here on the bb and it is a tremendous comfort to me.
Talk to you later.
Jeannine
p.s. Living in LimboLand has taken on added meaning, no?
